The Gentleman’s Handbook

[audio:http://dreamlandapparel.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Frank-Sinatra-Moon-River.mp3|titles=Frank Sinatra - Moon River]

There are those that would say, “What the Hell does Godfrey know about being a gentleman?” There are others who would coo, “Jon is a hopeless romantic, a complete gentleman.” Both statements contain curious truths, but considering the title I’m going to side with the second.

Now that that is settled let me introduce you to my new five-part series, “The Gentleman’s Handbook.” In my quest to be continuously opinionated I’ve constructed a concept to relay the lessons I’ve learned about being a man. So with some clever wordplay I’d like to share my knowledge via the five senses, starting with sight.

Sight = Appearance

From head to toe your skin and what sits upon it are your initial introduction. Let us save skin for the “Touch” chapter, and instead begin with what adorns it.

“The 4 C’s” of Clothing

My father taught me many things. He is a successful and multi-talented man who’s sage advice has served me well. Amongst the multitude of metaphorical gems he passed along his understanding of fashion has remained the most valuable. You see, though a man may make the clothing, clothing truly makes the man.

Cut – When putting an outfit together always take into account the different cuts you’re wearing. From the shape of your shoe to that of your pants it is important that your geometry be complimentary. Consider every item an addition to your wardrobe. Certain slices will fit together better than others, and new purchases should work with owned goods. Oh, and try it on first!

Color – Learn the color wheel! If you don’t know what color’s clash please ask someone who does. Because one day you’re going to be in the presence of beauty and she’s going to be looking back at eighties neon throwing up on grunge era green. Colors speak volumes so it is best that they converse peacefully.

Cloth – The maker has meaning. This is not to say that popular fashion houses equate to excellence and durability; rather, that it is important for you to find the names that do. Like the fairer gender learn to shop. Do not simply go to the mall on a random Saturday afternoon. Instead, keep a constant eye out for quality cloth.

Cost – The price of an object does not give it value. Quality products come in all denominations, what is important is that the cloth be worth its weight. Furthermore, blending an extravagant watch with a simple t-shirt eludes to your clever eye. Just as an expensive jacket atop cost friendly denim whispers your complexity.

!!! Most Important of All !!!

Now that you are dressed in your best remember this: Though your look is integral there is one more important… the way you look at her. I love my Blackberry “Joan.” I fondle her like breasts and stare at her endlessly, thus I am aware of what a serious issue “eye contact” can be. That said, those sockets should never be elsewhere when she’s around. This is not to say you stare. No. Like your look this is something with similar multi-layered insight. However, this is knowledge only you and honest concern can discover.

Here are some sightly steps to start you off on your visual quest. If you look at her and see new life, or wondrous words appear. If the simple sight of her elicits a grin and a stifle of friendly fear… you’re on the right path

…and may you cross the rivers in style.